A Wedding In Davao

6 11 2009

An OOC (Out of Cebu) Post

A few weeks ago, my good friend Ramesh of Davao Photo Blog announced that he was finally tying the knot. And he said that he hoped to see me and his other friends (Vet of VetLongWalks, Yum of Bored&Crafty, and Line of Gastronomic Adventures) during that very special day. I told Ram that we wouldn’t miss it for the world. We’ve put off all plans of visiting him in Davao in the past and we thought that this was the perfect moment that we’ve all been waiting for. We’d be hitting three birds with one stone, I realized. We’d be able to visit him, check out Davao City, and attend a traditional muslim wedding. In other words, Ram made us an offer we couldn’t refuse. Hahaha.

                

The couple and the entourage. Congratulations Ram and Jeehana!

All set for Davao City!

We’re finally in Davao City!

We left Cebu at 4:30 am last October 31. By 6, we were already in our hotel trying to get some sleep. LOL.

 We were all so hungry, however, so we decided to go out and grab something to eat. We found a small restaurant right beside Ateneo de Davao. Chicken Hotdog with egg and prawn crackers! :)

After breakfast, we toured downtown Davao a little.

Jeeps in Davao City.

The Marco Polo Hotel. I believe this is Davao City’s current tallest.

When we came back, we were no longer sleepy. So, we spent our time watching Shake, Rattle, and Roll. Hahaha.

We went to the Venue (Royal Mandaya Hotel) a few minutes before the start of the ceremony. The venue was lovely!

Wedding cakes. Wow. There were 5 of them!

 I think this guy is hungry. Hehehe.

The mood inside the venue before the start of the ceremony was very festive.

At the start of the ceremony, young muslim men marched down the aisle carrying containers covered with colored baskets. These men are called ‘damak’.

A damak with his food container.

Then, they removed the cover and placed the food on the tables.

Inside was a plate filled with different kinds of pastries and sweets. They are made just for the occasion by the groom’s family. According to the host, these young men walk from the groom’s house to the bride’s house carrying these treats a day or night before the wedding.

The guests were allowed to taste the pastries as well as the appetizers placed on the tables. Wow.

Satchmo waiting for his glass of water. Hehehe.

Mixed fruits and some chocolate cake. Yummy.

Yum, Line, and Vet posing for the camera.

For the couple!

The groom and his entourage.

This was the actual ceremony. Traditionally, the bride is never seen until the vows are made and the wedding is declared legal and binding by the officiating priest. Also, a muslim wedding can never be considered valid if one or more of its basic components are missing. If you take a close look, Ram is standing in front of a man who is the representative of the bride. The groom will say his vows to this representative in front of witnesses. When the ceremony is completed, the bride is presented together with her own entourage.

The witnesses.

Bridal entourage.

Escorted by the groom’s men.

The bride and the groom.

The ceremony lasted for almost an hour. Congratulations once again, Ram and Jeehana!

I’m so thankful that Ram invited us to his wedding. It was such a nice experience.

After the ceremony, we went back to the hotel and slept the whole afternoon. Around 6 pm, Ram told us to go to SM City Davao. There, they picked us up and brought us to one of Davao’s most famous BBQ joints – LUZ’s Kinilaw Place.

A huge slice of fish. Yummy!

The next day, we woke up early to check out Davao’s nice spots.

A street in Davao City.

Projector Under Repair! Hehe.

We reached People’s Park at around 10 AM. However, we learned that the park opens at 1. Dang!

Live, Yum, and Vet with their nice cameras.

Satchmo. Posing lang sa gate. Hahaha.

Take photos of Satchmo.

Ngisi ang baka! Hehehe.

 WHAW – a nice restaurant fronting the park.

A park ranger saw us taking pictures and asked if we were ‘visitors’. We said yes and he allowed us to get in. He, however, asked us to answer a comment sheet.

Tree-lined jog path. Nice.

The dome inside the park.

Rainbow oval! Nice!

City Ordinance. No Smoking!

Can you spot Satchmo?

A young woman carrying a basket filled with local fruits.

The Davao Eagle!

One-leg trick!

This look nice.

Satchmo at the Sunken Garden.

The next day, we woke up early for our flight back to Cebu. Satchmo excited to go home.

At last! There’s our ride back home!

 It was an awesome trip! Ram, and Jeehana, thanks for the invite! Davao is a lovely city!

 

thanks to yum and line for some of the photos! dull-colored photos are mine. hahaha.


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25 responses

6 11 2009
Miss Marian

ka nice pd sa place oist and sa kanang unsa na stage or kanang place sa gikaslan ba.. unsa man tawag ana huh…

6 11 2009
ianne

What a beautiful wedding ceremony! Yummy cakes. Davao is a lovely place. Lucky Satch & I can see you. :-)

6 11 2009
Ri

Wedding looked beautiful! Nice park & very clean!
My parents are going to Davao for some university reunion, it could be Ateneo but I’m not sure, early December. Looks like a nice place to visit :)

6 11 2009
billy

I’ve never been to a Muslim wedding… it must be a new experience. Is picture taking or video coverage of the ceremony allowed?

6 11 2009
leylander

yes. ok ra ang pag take ug photos, sir.

6 11 2009
Roxanne

nalingaw ko ni satchmo… it seems he really enjoyed the trip. haha! ka cute!

9 11 2009
leylander

he enjoyed it, he said. haha

6 11 2009
Bored & Crafty

The comment sheet that you were supposed to answer but DIDN’T!

10 11 2009
linea777

Ako ga answer ato… hahaha!

7 11 2009
Freek

Nice pictures

9 11 2009
leylander

thanks @freek! :)

7 11 2009
Sonia Hornijas

I’ve never been to a Muslim wedding before. That one looked beautiful.
I’m from Davao City and it saddens me to see that People’s park is not as vibrant as it was the first time it was opened to the public. The trees looked dry. hehe..
But this is a nice post.

7 11 2009
inday myrna

Nice wedding and nice place Davao. Abe nako maka hadlok ang Davao. Look peaceful man diay. I’ve only been there for a stop over from Singapore to Cebu.
Did you try marang fruit Ley?

7 11 2009
Sonia Hornijas

That’s what most people think about Davao since it’s in Mindanao. Contratry to all the pre-conceived notions, Davao is pretty safe to live in. With Duterte as the mayor, crime rate is low.^^

7 11 2009
ramesh

thanks a lot for this ley. i loved this post. :)

9 11 2009
leylander

im glad you liked it, ram! :)

8 11 2009
rodangeles

nice experience ……………… i have never seen or attended a muslim wedding nor been to DAVAO, thanks for sharing us this beautiful city!

9 11 2009
leylander

thanks, rod! :)

8 11 2009
Asmenah

Assalamu Alaikom!

I think you get this compliment all the time, but I’m gonna say it too… nice pictures! Keep it up.

Wow! I really like their wedding ceremony. Very traditional and it’s awesome! Thanks for posting it here. Um, if it’s okay to ask, are you a Muslim too?

Btw, I super loved the idea about Satchmo haha! Cute.

I’ll be reading your other posts too. SALAAM.

9 11 2009
leylander

hi asmenah. thanks for the comment.
by the way, im not a muslim. just my friend ramesh. :)

10 11 2009
Gian

Grabe ka bongga ang wedding ni Ram. Congrats Ram!

12 11 2009
Takdol

The cultural and educational experience gleaned from this trip made it very worthwhile. Good health, prosperity, and happiness to the beautiful couple!

28 11 2009
Soc Go

I went to Davao City about 4 years ago. The pics of Luz’s Kinilaw Place, reminds me of my visit there. I love the ambience of that place- so homey. Too bad I didn’t have a camera at that time yet.

Try to visit Aldevinco in Davao City next time– it’s known for selling very cheap malongs, souvenirs, accessories and other stuff you see being sold here in Cebu during Sinulog. They’re located somewhere in the downtown area and I can’t remember the street name anymore.

I miss Davao City very much. Love that place. :)

29 11 2009
lance

park ranger? meron pala nyan sa Davao. Sana meron din sa Cebu nyan…. Mukhang hospitable ang mga taga Davao ah..

11 12 2009
tanom

congrats to the newly wed!

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